Stuck In A Limbo

When we want a particular thing so bad, we are willing to risk everything for it to come to fruition. Our desire to desperately make it a reality can put us into a limbo, where, at times, we feel like we would be stuck in the muddy situation for eternity. The pain, caused by theContinue reading “Stuck In A Limbo”

Live Your Dream

As human beings, we have a habit of seeking external recognition and appreciation to validate the things that we have done or are about to do. The truth of the matter is that external validation will be harder to find if we decide to live our dream. Living our dream requires the courage to breakContinue reading “Live Your Dream”

Heightening Competitive Edge

Many retail stores in Yorkville have on their display windows greeting in Mandarin, wishing their Chinese clientele a happy lunar new year of horse. A decade ago, learning a foreign language seemed like a luxury to many. In 2014, having the ability to speak a second language has become a must if we want toContinue reading “Heightening Competitive Edge”

True Friends

Back in high school, my dad once overheard a phone conversation that I had with a good friend of mine, at the time. During the conversation, my friend and I used funny nicknames to address each other, which was something that my dad disapproved of and considered disrespectful. He whispered to me while I wasContinue reading “True Friends”

Great Achievement By Robin Sharma

Great achievement always requires great sacrifice. That idea–in a world of quick fix–isn’t so popular. But it still holds true. The bigger the dream, the more work, focus, patience, bravery and devotion you’ll need to find within you to get it done.

Don’t Be Rooted In The Past

Don’t be rooted in the past, but be grounded in the past. I like the word, nostalgia. In fact, I first learned this word while browsing through school French vocabularies. The word, nostalgia, is beautiful, just like the meaning that it is intended to convey. We tend to hold onto anything that’s beautiful. Hence whyContinue reading “Don’t Be Rooted In The Past”

Facebook Wall

Once I heard someone say to her friend “May your life look as fantastic as it does on your Facebook wall.” True, so true! What do you want to see on your Facebook wall when you log in your account? Would you rather see positive messages to help get your day going and to haveContinue reading “Facebook Wall”

Modern Men’s Pressure

Is it weird for men to take care of themselves? Is it not manly enough for guys to pay extra attention to their physical appearance? Is it fair for women to mock at men for their inclination to move away from the “boys don’t cry” image to become more in tune with their soft side?Continue reading “Modern Men’s Pressure”


Friendship is just like any other types of relationships, which comes with a beginning and an end. Over the past few years, I have gotten rid of, have lost, have become distant from and have made lots of friends. Having so much experiences in the realm of friends-making, it remains uneasy for me to keepContinue reading “Friendship”

A Dreamy Reality

“Make your life a dream, and a dream, a reality.”- Antoine de Saint Exupéry How many of us have this aspiration for ourselves? I certainly do! I love having dreams. Because dreaming provides me with the necessary motivating force, propelling me to go after what I want for myself in this life time. Whether itContinue reading “A Dreamy Reality”