I wish that I could be kind and sweet at all time, but I am not. I can be judgmental, critical, and egotistic at certain time of the day. I used to and, still, fight it so hard against these negative emotions; that being said, I have learned to embrace and accept them, because I realize that, despite all their not so seductive traits, they make up parts of human nature and daily existence.
Realization and acceptance of what the reality is can be liberating. This sense of liberation does not mean that we are forever free of malaise of all kinds, thanks to our personal realization and acceptance of the what is; rather, it is just an inner knowing of what constitutes the true way of living, loving the ups, while managing effectively and coming to terms with the unflattering downs.
No one is immune to the harassment of thoughts and feelings of negativity. What makes some of those people that we often look up to appear to be all-mighty and supreme oftentimes is because they are good at not exposing their dirty laundry.